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Facing Situation: Something in Your Own Heart

April 16, 2026

Micromanagement Creates the Dependence It Fears

Micromanagement does not merely control dependent people. Over time, it can teach capable people to stop exercising judgment, wait for permission, and become increasingly dependent upon the leader. Faithful leadership protects the work while deliberately training people, transferring authority, and reducing oversight as competence and responsibility grow.

April 9, 2026

I Fought the Door and the Door Won

Sometimes the problem is not the locked door. Sometimes it is senior leadership repeatedly pushing on a door that clearly says PULL—and a four-year-old is standing by to provide the performance review.

April 2, 2026

The Road You Can Live With

When two legitimate roads lie before us, wisdom is not found in blindly following passion, clinging to past investment, or waiting for certainty that will never come. It is found in faithfully counting the cost, seeking counsel, examining the evidence, and then having the courage to choose.

March 26, 2026

You Cannot Grow What You Cannot See

We cannot intentionally grow what we cannot accurately see. Awareness helps us recognize reality, understand our personality and patterns, examine the stories we tell ourselves, receive what others can see from where they stand, and bring what we discover into intentional action.

March 19, 2026

Forgiveness or Repentance Doesn’t Establish Competence

A leader can be completely forgiven, genuinely repentant, and deeply loved—and still not be competent for the responsibility he holds. A practical ten-step framework for extending grace without surrendering the stewardship of the people entrusted to our care.

March 12, 2026

Which Is More Important—Speaking the Truth or Speaking in Love?

We often act as though we must choose between speaking truth and speaking in love. God never gave us that choice. Truth without love can become a weapon, while love without truth can become avoidance. Christian maturity requires the WHAT and the HOW—bringing what is true with humility, mercy, gentleness, self-awareness, and genuine love for the person receiving it.

March 5, 2026

The Leadership Courage to Confront Reality

Courageous leaders face what is actually happening rather than protecting themselves from uncomfortable facts. Whether the issue is performance, staff departures, finances, damaged trust, a failing strategy, or something in their own hearts, faithful leadership begins by confronting reality and acting upon it.

February 26, 2026

Nothing Important Happens by Accident

Good intentions matter, but they do not produce growth by themselves. Intentionality closes the gap between what we say matters and what we actually do. Learn why intentionality is foundational to growth and how to turn knowledge, plans, and good intentions into consistent action and transformation.

February 12, 2026

When Nothing Is Wrong, But Something Is Missing?

Some church leaders are not harsh, abusive, or obviously destructive, yet the people around them know something important is missing. This article examines leadership by omission, personality blind spots, leadership development, character, trust, shepherding, and how an ordinary leadership deficiency can become a destructive pattern.

February 5, 2026

The Addicted Leader: Recovery Is an Act of Leadership

Addiction does not always look like failure. Sometimes it wears an expensive suit, leads organizations, makes payroll, and receives applause. For leaders who have learned to project competence and solve everyone else's problems, admitting that they need help can be extraordinarily difficult. Recovery is not an abandonment of leadership. It may be one of the greatest acts of stewardship a leader ever makes.