Protected: When Leadership Makes Truth Too Expensive
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Preaching, teaching, shepherding, and leading overlap, but they are not the same competencies. Churches can easily mistake visible preaching ability for pastoral competence—and pastors can make the same mistake about themselves. Faithful stewardship requires leaders to recognize their personality propensities, develop what must be developed, delegate what should be delegated, and make sure the people entrusted to them are actually being shepherded well.
Micromanagement does not merely control dependent people. Over time, it can teach capable people to stop exercising judgment, wait for permission, and become increasingly dependent upon the leader. Faithful leadership protects the work while deliberately training people, transferring authority, and reducing oversight as competence and responsibility grow.
Sometimes the problem is not the locked door. Sometimes it is senior leadership repeatedly pushing on a door that clearly says PULL—and a four-year-old is standing by to provide the performance review.
Addiction does not always look like failure. Sometimes it wears an expensive suit, leads organizations, makes payroll, and receives applause. For leaders who have learned to project competence and solve everyone else's problems, admitting that they need help can be extraordinarily difficult. Recovery is not an abandonment of leadership. It may be one of the greatest acts of stewardship a leader ever makes.
It can be easier to lead, encourage, and hold other people accountable than to consistently do those things for yourself. But every other expression of leadership rests on a more fundamental responsibility: learning to faithfully govern the person you will lead for the rest of your life—you.
Culture is not primarily what an organization says it values. It is what leaders model, tolerate, reward, celebrate, correct, ignore, and repeatedly permit. Learn the culture before trying to change it, preserve what is healthy, confront what is dysfunctional, and intentionally build a place where good people can flourish.
A leader may postpone making a formal decision, but practical decisions are still being made every day. The work continues, the cost keeps rising, and someone else carries the burden. Not deciding is still a decision—usually one made at someone else’s expense.
The DISC Model of Human Behavior gives us a practical language for understanding how people naturally communicate, make decisions, approach work, respond to change, and relate to others. Learn how the model works, why a reliable assessment can be remarkably accurate, and how to use that knowledge without labeling people or excusing behavior.
“For just as each of us has one body with many members, and not all members have the same function, so in Christ we…