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How to Better Love Your Wife

Hold Her Hand

One of the simplest ways to tell your wife you still delight in being close to her.

How to Better Love Your Wife Series · Episode 5 of many!

Royce White June 20, 2026 3-minute read

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Holding your wife’s hand is one of those wonderfully simple ways of saying, “I love you, I’m glad you’re mine, and I want to be close to you,” without saying a word.

When you’re walking through the mall, heading into church, strolling through a parking lot, or wandering around somewhere on vacation, reach over and take her hand. Even when the kids are with you, hold her hand. In fact, especially when the kids are with you. Let them grow up seeing that Mom and Dad genuinely enjoy being together.

When you’re sitting next to her at a movie, hold her hand. When you’re sitting together on the couch, reach for her hand. And every once in a while when you go out to dinner, sit beside her instead of across from her. There’s something different about sitting close enough to touch shoulders, whisper something in her ear, or simply put your hand on hers.

And when you walk together, walk together. Don’t make her trail along behind you while you charge toward the destination! Don’t wander ten feet ahead because you happen to walk faster. Slow down. Walk beside your bride. Holding her hand will pretty much take care of that problem!

These are little things. But little things done consistently have a wonderful way of becoming big things in a marriage.

Holding her hand tells her—and occasionally everyone else—“This is my girl. We belong together.”

And while you’re holding her hand, don’t forget to tell her you love her. You’re probably not in any danger of saying it too much.

Love your bride today. Call her just because you were thinking about her. Take her to breakfast before work. Put a card in the mail instead of simply handing it to her. Compliment her in front of the children.

And remember date night!

You married this woman because you wanted to spend your life with her.

So spend some of it holding her hand.

Much love and blessings…


Scripture referenced: Ephesians 5:25; 1 Corinthians 13:4–7; Song of Solomon 8:6–7

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